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Desert Rose
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hi friends 
what do u say that Marriage should be love marriage or arrange ? 
app jo bi kahey plz also try to give the reason of tht....
thanks
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cmyaseen
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i will especially say to boys tht dont do the love marriage..  i tell u the Girls Psychology !!! then decide ur self...... 
Fraud with Innocent Boys
Fun with Handsome Boys
Friendship with Charming Boys
Contact with Intelligent Boys
Flirt with Freaky Boys
Love with Faithful Boys
& in the end
Marriage with the Rich Boy 
Moral of the story :
Chandramukhi ho yaa Paaro, Sab Ek jaisi hai Yaaro !!!! 
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Maira
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hi cmyaseen
yeah Girls ki Psychology bata rahey ho ya boys ki stupidity ........ 
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Leo
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i think k love after arrange marriage is better..
what do u think ???
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Maira
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i think key marriage aisi honi chahyea jo love marriage bi ho nd arrange marriage bi.
mean agher app kissi se love kartey hain tu apney gher walo se us key barey main batayea then baqi arrange wo karey, and agher kissi waja se gher waley na maney tu force na karey nd un ki maney.
Parents jo bi bacho ka sochatey hain wo bahtur sochatey hain nd wohi log kamyab life ghuzartey hain jo parents ko obey kartey hain.. nd yeah parents ki responsibility bi hai key wo bacho ki pasand Napasand ko janey..
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modern_heer
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i also gree with Maira.. 
gher waley bi khush, wo bi kuch and khud bi khush
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Master
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mayree suno, hona yeh chahiye kay shaadi say pehlay engagement karayn aur aik regular milna julna rakhayn, agar bor naa ho jayen toh shaadi kar layn warna ghar walon ko saaf saaf keh dayn: "maaf karo baba"
yaaro, love marriage ho yaa arranged, shaadi kuchh arsay kay baad partnership ban jaatee hae jis mayn donon bus life partners hotay haen, romance parnters naheen hotay, aurat shaadi kay baad kabhee bor naheen hotee, shuroo shuroo mayn mard kee bay panah mohabbat paatee hae, kuchh arsay kay baad mard hee say apnee aur bachon kee zarooriyaat pooree karwatee hae, haqeeqat ye hae kay mard shaadi kay kuchh saal baad bor ho jataa hae kyoonkay mard kay andar allah nay bay panah mohabbat rakhee hae, usay bohat romantic banaaya hae, ye baat aurat naheen samajh paatee kay mard hamesha aik achhee, hansmukh, good-looking aur loving aurat chahtaa hae, aik aesee bv naheen jo kuchh saal baad sirf aur sirf zindagi kee zarooriyaat hee per concentrate karay aur apnee smartness aur physic say ghafil ho jaae, mard kaa khayaal toh bohat rakhay lekin zindagee say romance bilkul ghaaeb kar day, bohat kum hee couples aesay hotay haen jo old age tak apnee zindagee mayn romance qayem rakhtay haen
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cmyaseen
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master bari experienced batey kartey ho....
khair tu hai.... ? 
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modern_heer
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cmyaseen tum us se jealous kioun hotey ho... 
agher master theek baat kar raha hai tu usey karney do....
yeah common sense ki batey htoi hain, jo sirf kuch common log main hoti hai and un common logo main tum ............ aho ......... 
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Leo
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master ne jo bhi kaha theek nahi kaha....
bcz aurat ki nature aisi hay n us k liye islam main bhi hukam hay k husband uska "Majazi Khuda" hota hay thats y wo sirf 1 person k saath hassi khushi sari life guzarti hay n ussy hi apna sab kuch manti hay but mard ki nature kuch aisi hay k shadi k baad apni biwi achi nahi lagti dosri aurtain achi lagti hain n wo un main interest leny lagta hay jisko master sb nay mohabbat ka naam diya hay halnka mard se kahin zyada mohabbat aurat main bhari hoti hay...
n i dont agree with this tooo k engagement k baad miltay rahoo agar boor ho jao to choor doo nahi too shadi kr loo???what is this stupidity?? r u muslim?? if yes then u should know what Islam says abt this...if u dont know then i will tell u next time...
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Master
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Naraaz naheen hotay, Leo
Shaayed tum mayn sense of humour naheen hae, Mayree oos taqreer ka pehla "chhota wala hissa" actually mizah aur zaraafat kaa aik bemisaal namoona hae
Ab aao doosray "baray walay" hissay kee taraf, I request you to read it again, I have never said that, since men like romance in life, therefore, they start looking for other "khawateen"; No, my dear no, Baat ye samjhanay kee koshish kar raha tha kay, hubby & wife start living a very ordinary life after a few years of marriage (whether it is a love marriage or arranged one) just because wives start acting as a partner not a lover; Aurat, by nature, aik hamdard insaan zaroor hotee hae, lekin mohabbat, rehnay do beebee, agar mohabbat ho toh kabhee bhee woh apnay shauhar par na bigrhay, woh shauhar jo waqaee aurat aur aulaad ka duniya mayn aik khuda hee jaesa hota hae
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cmyaseen
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yeah baat theek hai key marud ko shadi key kuch arsey baad hi dusri khawateen achi laghna sharu ho jati hai.. nd us ki biwi jo usey shadi se pehlay khubsurat tareen larki laghati thi, ab wo dusrioun women se buri lugh rahi hoti hai...
yeah marud ki nature hai, but iss key opposite agher aurat ko daikhey tu wo apney husband key alawa kissi aur ki tarif daikhna bi pasand nahi karti. Shadi se pehlay wo beshuk jaisi bi ho but after marriage wo her mumkum koshish karti hain key apney husband ko jitani zaida ho sakhey mobahut dey.
So aj kul hamari society main zaida tara gharalo jaghrey issi waja se hotey hain jo Master ney kaha key Man want romance, nd romance aisi cheeze hai jiss key liyea app ka jee kabhi nahi barhta, nd if he will start looing other women tu wife ko yea boht bura laghey ga as aurat kabhi bi bardhasht nehi karey gi key koi aur us key husband ki mohabut main rakhawet baney, nd jub wo apney husband se iss se mana karey gi tu phir larai jaghrey start ho jaey gey.. bcz marud bi chahta hai key wo jo marzi karey aurat usey mana na karey, chahye wo ghalt kar raha hai ya theek..
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modern_heer
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yeah husband and wife key main jaghro ki reason yehi hoti hai key girls kafi shuki hoti hai, ab yeah girl ki aik na sirf buri balkey boht buri adut hai, jo nahi hona chahyea...
But insaan main aik burai agher by nature hai tu usey change karna boht hi mushkil hai nd yeah prblm app maximum girls main daikhey gey.. Aurat kabhi nehi chahti key us ka husband kissi aur ki tarif daikhey ya us ka sochey.
so inn sub main agher marriage engaged ho ya love tu us se koi faruq nahi parta.. bus apis main understanding honi chahyea nd main cheeze itemad hai..
what u people say abt it ?? nd where s rizwan frm this topic, he didnt even post ny msg.
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Master
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aitemaad kay saath saath understanding bhee zarooree hae, heer
aik joke suno:
aik couple aik restaurant mayn bethha tha kay aik aurat aaee aur mard ko hello kiya aur uss kay gaal per kiss ker kay chalee gaee
bv nay ghussay say poochha kay wo kaun thee
shauhar nay araam say jawab diya kay woh uss kee dost hae
bus pphir kiya tha, bv nay aankhayn dikha kar kaha kay usay talaaq chaahiyay
shauhar pphir aaraam say bola, mayn tumhaaray jazbaat samajhta hoon, laikin yeh socho, kay talaaq kay baad tumhaari yeh rozaana kee tafreeh, dhair shopping, travelling, sub kuchh naheen rahega
itnay mayn bv nay dekha kay kay aik aur jaan pehchaan wala shakhs aik aurat kay saath restaurant mayn daakhil huaa
bv nay apnay shauhar say poochha kay wo hamaaray friend kay saath aurat kawn hae, wo uss kee bv toh naheen hae, mayn jaantee hoon
jawaab mayn shauhar nay kaha, wo uss kee dost hae
toh bv nay kaha, tumhaari dost ziyaada khoobsoorat hae!!!
toh ye hae sooratehaal
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